Lets Talk About It

So now, lets talk about the hot topic of the season.

Marriage

A cool breezy spring afternoon, everyone clad in their best. The groom handsomely stands waiting and a bride so beautiful gracefully approaching. As the little cute flower girl sprinkles petals of sweet smelling roses and the music fills the air, a fairytale of the century. Now the crowd turns in a slow motion to watch the entrance of the best thing that day. Smiles that no one could forget and tears would fill that happy day indeed.

As the big neverending bright sky smiles to you and your partner, no one in love would ever think that the world would one day turn its shoulders towards them. All promises are promised, and the birds seems to feel what you felt as if there is no tomorrow where you would have to dread getting up in the morning and fight the hectic of life filled with payments and taxes and bills that are piling up. No, you're still in fantasy.

It always amazes me what us female species would do to get our fairytale ending. To torture ourselves for the male species when actually you still look simply the same to them. How we yearn so much for beauty attraction that sometimes it makes us look like bimbos. At the end of the day, when we walk down to get our fairytale ending, the prince charming smiles and crosses his fingers while saying his vows to us. For some of us, "Till death do us part" are engraved on our souls but for most of us, we become victims of two faced hypocrits.

The thing is that the modern world does not tolerate the word "loyal". No one especially the male species sees that it is that important to do so. Once you're used, then you're a used car. Your engine squeaks and runs less smoothly. Its like having a car which all men can adapt to. A 20 year old car is old enough to be trash. Well, lets buy a new car, the more money i have, the better. Than I can afford a classier brand new smooth ride. Translate that in human value, a man with more blings will always get better chicks no matter how old they are. Than what happens to the old 20 year relationship he had with the old one? Well, it'll always be there in emergency cases no matter how awful you find it to be.

Soon enough, that fairytale picture from your walt disney story will be ripped off the wall, you'll be screaming at your children dreading to see their faces especially if it so resembles the one you love. You'll get bitter and depressed the only thing that would come you down is popping those amazing pills that are prescribed. Now what happens to that fairytale you had? Was it neverending?

By that time when you're so off your mind watching his new ride, your children searches for a house that is really a home. For the worst case scenarios, thats where we get people who run the streets and poke needles under bridges. Everything goes messy and there is no where out of this dreadful jungle of the real human life.

But a respect goes to those one parent household women that does'nt need the pity of people around them. That work their asses of no matter what people say they are. It's not easy I can say. They have little but offer so much to people around them. A fight like the survival of the feotus, only to do whats best for the future. To make sure that theres enough food, money for the bills and taxes, not forgetting the car and what not. Its not them that need the pity, the the one that left them for so pathedicly greedily craving for extra like they can't live without it. its the simple truth.

I may say this like i'm exagerating but in this world, there are some that could feel whats real in those statements. Some who have grown up going through it would know how it feels to watch a father holding his child with love that they never had before. So try to look around, take time to put yourself in another persons shoe and feel whats it like to go through such things that you can't escape in life. Fairytales are'nt reality so just wake up from it because after your fairytale wedding, headhunters and serial killers are lurking at your front door waiting to devour you. A marriage is much more important than a wedding.

So girls please do search your best for the best. One where loyalty is not just a verb but an action.

She turns 48

Time may pass soo fast for her, as today my mother turns 48. Her age clearly shows that both her little girls are'nt little anymore. But I always will be her little girl internally. It sucks soo much for both me and Changi that we could not be with you to celebrate this day.. its not like you wanna acknowledge yourself growing old anyway rite?

This is the third year I'm not there to be with you to celebrate your birthday. Well, I'm going to be alone on mine to. Its a big number this year. But Mummy, to me you're always young! How I wish i'm by your side. The distance across the seas are too large but none can even measure the love you have gave us, not forgetting the people you have blessed around you.

Through technology, the only thing I can give is virtual gifts in Facebook. haha. see, my mum is not lame. But to think about it again, Gods greatest gift to you was us right? =D Like you always said two lovely daughters. See, we can't live without you and vice versa. Changi would have made this more funny but because its me, it's less provoking and laughing. I'm just not talented in that area.

*that's Superwoman in the middle*

Mummy I just want to say that..

actually i want to go home (haha jk!)

I love you so much and I really thank God for a great mother like you coz I know that no one has you as their mother, but I'm willing to share you because I know how great of a mother you are. So on this day that you turned 48, I know you have pampered yourself much without the presence of the both of us, I really wish you a great 48th year of your life. Much, much more will be in store for a great creation like you. May Gods blessing pour abundantly on you.

with lots of love from a precious daughter who can't and would'nt be living wihout you, like me.

Reeyau
*muah * muah * muah* kiss kiss mummy, I love you!